The other day, the kids and I were driving somewhere and from the back of the van, Anna announced that she was going to marry Jack when she grew up. I was touched and told her how sweet that was, but then explained to her how you have to marry someone outside of your family (I didn't go into the fact that not everyone abides by this rule, but I digress...). She sat there with a stumped look on her face and asked, "Well who am I going to marry then?" I told her that she was going to have lots of boys that are friends as she grows up and that she would probably fall in love with one of them. Then I started listing potential candidates: "It might be Ben or Liam from your class at school, it might be Bryce or Garrett from church, or it might be Charlie." Charlie is the son of our close friends, Paul and Sarah. Immediately she yelled, "I want to marry Charlie!"
I thought that was end of the conversation until a few days ago when she walked into the room and asked me, "When I marry Charlie when I get big, are we going to have babies?" There was instantly a huge lump in my throat and I felt nauseated. Where in the world did that come from? I thought quick and told her that most people who get married do have babies, so that she probably would have babies with whomever she married. Luckily, that seemed to suffice and she changed topics.
When Will walked in the door that night from work, Anna met him with "Daddy, guess what? When I get big, I'm going to marry Charlie and have babies!" He looked at me with eyes as big as saucers and then just dropped his head into his hands. Welcome home, Daddy!
To make matters worse, we had lunch with the Young family after church on Sunday. Anna and Charlie and his big brother, Will, all sat at the kids table. When it was time to go, they all hugged each other and then Charlie leaned over and smacked a kiss on Anna's cheek. All of the adults had heard the story by this point and all cackled. Then as we were walking to the car, little Charlie let out an "I love you, Anna!" Apparently, the feeling is mutual!