Sunday, November 2, 2014

Anna These Days


Anna is definitely seven going on seventeen these days!  She can be sweet and thoughtful one moment and quite sassy the next.  Here we go!  We are already getting glimpses into the teenage years!

She is loving first grade and is doing a fantastic job.  She still reads like crazy and is branching out from the safety net of Little House on the Prairie and The Magic Treehouse series books, which she has read over and over and over.  Will and I have been interested in seeing how her teachers handle her advanced reading.  This year, they started guiding reading groups and she actually goes up to a second grade class for her group.  We are glad she is getting what she needs and is being challenged in that way.  They also started the Book It! reading program and she had her 20 books read for the month on about day 10.;)  Will and I couldn't believe they were still doing this same program through Pizza Hut like we did in elementary school 30-some years ago!

I have also been impressed that Anna seems to be friends with everyone and hasn't really clung to a "best friend".  A different friend has sat with us each time we've gone to eat lunch with her.  On the class field trip, she was fine hanging out with whoever was around.  She still gets together with her two friends, Ellen and Audrey, from preschool and they have sleepovers together.  It's nice because they go to different schools but still see each other at soccer and church.  And we are super comfortable with their parents and families so it makes it each much easier to send her off.  I know the BFF days are coming but I'm glad we are not having to deal with that drama at present.

Anna has been blessed with (and a little cursed by) her parents' perfectionistic and slightly OCD personalities.  Everything in her room is set up just like she wants it and, although she does play with her stuff, it remains in relatively the same orderly fashion.  She panics (in all actuality, freaks out) when anything in her room is disturbed or even if she has to move things so her room can be vacuumed.  This is a constant battle when you have a 3-year-old brother!  We have even had discussions around friend play-dates because she wants friends to come over but doesn't want them to mess up her stuff.  Will and I definitely understand what she's feeling, but we have to teach her that things can't always be just the way we want them in life, unfortunately.  This is an ongoing battle.

She has become best buds with the two boys next door, Mason and Stabler, and lives for after school when she can quickly finish her homework and go out and play.  I love that they will spend hours outside riding bikes, playing on the swing set, and coming up with new games to play and things to do. The boys are home schooled, so it has been interesting to hear them talk about school to each other and to get Anna's views on home schooling later.

Physically, she has grown so much this past year!  She grew 3.5 inches since turning six and gained a whopping 2 pounds.;)  She made it to the 4 foot mark and could ride almost every ride at the fair!  She definitely needs size 7 clothing for the length but even her leggings are a little bit baggy on her.  She decided to grow her bangs out over the summer and they are almost down to her chin now.  Mommy is glad they are finally long enough to tuck behind ears, but she prefers a headband instead.  My rule is that as long as we can see that beautiful face of hers, it doesn't matter how it's pulled back!

Despite wanting to be so independent and grown up, Anna is so very sensitive about some things.  We have discovered that she internalizes a lot of things that show up as questions or comments or concerns much later down the road.  The miscarriage that occurred last summer really got to her and in ways that have not been evident until recently.  Before my sister had Baby Cam in August, Anna made some comment about "if Baby Cam dies…".  I was initially appalled that she would say something like that but after thinking about it, I realized that in her world, babies do die sometimes.  She has been super skeptical about Baby Drew the entire pregnancy and I don't think will completely believe he's coming until she holds him in her arms.  And I completely understand why she feels that way!  I am excited to see the amazing big sister that she is going to be to these little brothers, even though she's not super excited about being the only girl out of the three.  We are counting on her to be an excellent helper in the coming months and I think she will embrace that role once she realizes Drew is really here!  

It has been so amazing to watch her grow and mature these last few years.  We know there will be struggles and battles to overcome, but we are so very proud of the person Anna is becoming. We are looking forward to encouraging her and discovering more about the amazing person God made her to be as she grows older.  We don't know what we would do without you and love you so much, sweet girl!!

Jack These Days



Since I have done a less-than-stellar job of keeping up with the blog lately, I feel like I need to do a couple of individual updates to catch up with who the kids are these days…

Jack is so sweet, partly mischievous, always on the go, up early EVERY SINGLE MORNING, and just down right hilarious.  He has an easy-going personality that is so dang cute.  He will talk to absolutely anyone.  We ran into our pastor while out for dinner the other night and Jack talked his head off.  Before he walked away, Dr. Don said, "That boy is going to be something else!"  Yes, we know!!;)

He is a bit of a destructor, damaging pretty much everything he touches.  This makes things a little strained between him and Anna right now, since all he wants is to play with her and she likes everything just so.  But they absolutely adore each other when they're not fighting.;)  He still loves the 3 T's (trucks, trains, and tractors), with all construction equipment falling into the "tractor" category.  We have sat many an hour watching the tractors at construction sites.

He has grown so much!!  He is wearing 5T shirts, 4T bottoms and is still in size 6 diapers.  He has absolutely ZERO interest in potty training at 3 and 1/2, so we are trying to be patient.

He has done absolutely fabulously with his hearing aids and his speech has improved so much since he started wearing them.  Sadly for his mama, many of his cute little baby words and pronunciations have disappeared.:(  But I know that is good!

He has started wanting to do some of the things he sees Sissy doing, so has recently learned how to write his name, along with some other letters, and is really catching on to this whole numbers and math thing.  He counts things constantly and has started doing addition and subtraction with Anna and his daddy.

He is all about some football.  He will put on his UNC helmet and jersey and want to play tackle football in the middle of the den with with his daddy.  Everything and anything becomes "football guys" and he will line them up opposing each other and they will play and "score" on each other.  It is so stinkin' cute!  This started out with UNC football helmet light covers that go on a string of Christmas lights but since then he has used Sissy's math flash cards, Keurig K-cups, toy cars, and candy corn to be football guys.  And he can relay every single detail of our trips to the UNC football games.  This boy doesn't miss much.;)

If I'm not up yet when he comes downstairs first thing in the morning, he will crawl into bed with me and cuddle for a few minutes before getting up to go play.  This is one of my favorite parts of the day!  Some mornings, if I don't cuddle quite tight enough, he'll say, "Mommy, you put yours arms around me and I'll put my arms around you and we can squeeze."  So sweet!!

Here are some of his current cute and hilarious sayings:

* Wash car (car wash)
* Blanklet (he has always added that extra "l" to blanket)
* Bunt (for button--"Let me push the bunt!")
* "My bunny rabbit waked up!" (every morning when he is in our room at 6:02 am after his night light alarm has switched to "awake"--we have tried so many times to move it back but he won't have it)
* "It's just me!" (when he comes up behind you and wallops you with a bat or sword or whatever, as if you didn't know)
* Booshy-booshy (said at various times, not sure exactly what it means)
* I need to ask you two more "one more questions". (trying to stall at bedtime when I've told him "one more question")
* While driving down the road, if he sees an overpass, he will yell out to everyone to "dunk your head" as we go under.  There is no telling what we look like to those cars around us!

He is just so BOY and so SWEET all rolled into one.  He keeps us on our toes and keeps us laughing.  We are so glad you are part of this family, Jack!!  We love you so very much!!

Friday, October 31, 2014

Our Growing Family

These are just a few of the amazing photos from our maternity photo shoot with our friend Lauren.  I'm so glad we captured these moments as our family grows.








We love you and can't wait to meet you Drew!

October Outings

 Some of my favorites from our annual trip to the pumpkin patch...









Sissy helping Jack at the CMP Fall Festival.

Pumpkin Carving!
Happy Halloween
from Barbie and the construction worker!

The Fun in Between

 For the sake of time, here are some true "Hege Highlights" from the past few months...


Leslie met her nursing school study group in Wilmington
for an A-team reunion weekend.  She and Amy were both prego!

Jack graduated to a big boy booster seat like Sissy!

Aunt Leslie getting some Cam time!

Of course there were Tar Heel tailgates!

Last trip to the pool!

Jack was loving all the construction going on
around the neighborhood.

Anna was so excited to get her 1st grade Bible!

Anna ran 44 laps at this year's Boosterthon Fun Run
for her school.

My two college besties and I were all pregnant at the same time--
Michelle with her second and Melissa and I with our thirds!

Mommy got to go on the 1st grade field trip to Lazy 5 Ranch.

Sleepover with the Three Musketeers: Audrey, Anna, and Ellen.

At the end-of-season soccer party,
Anna got the award for Best Stopper.

Anna with Coach Daddy and Coach Adam

More construction equipment for Jack to play on!

The fall wouldn't be complete without a trip to
the Dixie Classic Fair!

Jack's favorite part of the fair--the tractors!

Jeffro and Nellie came up to celebrate her 4th birthday with us!

Jack's friend Maddie turned four, too!
Jack getting a little bottle practice in with Baby Cam.

Will and Pops traveled to watch UNC play
at Notre Dame. Will got to see his good college
friends Jay and Moriarty at the game.

Gramps and Papa's Special Gifts



Mimi and Papa came up the weekend after Anna's birthday and had a special surprise for her.  It was quite large and when she took it out of the bag, her emotional (and hormonal) mama started bawling.  See, my Gramps that lived with us growing up had made trophy shelves for my siblings and me when we were old enough to need one.  We each had ours hanging on the wall in our rooms our entire childhood and by the time we graduated, it could barely hold all the trophies and awards and medals.  Mine is actual hanging on the wall in our garage because I just couldn't stand for it to just be sitting in the basement.  My sweet dad had made Anna her very own trophy shelf!  I know Anna doesn't quite understand what all the fuss is about now, but I hope one day I can explain to her more fully how special that gift was and how it carries on the legacy of another very special man.  We are so blessed to have such amazing men in our family.  We love you Gramps and Papa!!



The Great Wolf Lodge



Will and I had been talking about taking the kids to the Great Wolf Lodge for a while, but wanted to make sure Jack was old enough.  With Baby Drew on the way, we decided we probably needed to go ahead and go before he got here.  We pitched the idea to Anna about doing a birthday trip and she was super excited!!  We left after her soccer game on Saturday morning, got there right after lunch, and were able to enjoy the park until after lunch on Sunday.  We had so much fun!  What a super neat place!!?!  Jack was just an inch shy from being able to do all the "big rides" so I'm sure we'll be back in a year or so.;)






The kids were thrilled with their
bunk bed tent and separate TV!